I don’t know when it started and I don’t know when it will stop. It probably never will. Men do it. Women do it. The question is why we do it. Why do we “hit it and quit it”? For men, since we are the ones who get the bad rap, the easy answer is that we are dogs. I don’t know why women do it and if I thought about it, I would realize that I don’t even care. As men, we just deal with women’s behavior sometimes and charge it to the game. Women are so hard to figure out, why try. That’s why I write a blog about men and why we do what we do. But I do have a question for the females that I will get to later. Maybe I can get some answers. In the meantime, below are the answers you wanted, or the answers you probably didn’t want.
1. Chick not sexy enough to do anything else.
2. Pussy was wack, garbage.
3. In a relationship.
4. You look better with your clothes on.
5. Pussy was too easy, I know I got game but come on, I know I aint that nice.
6. Pussy was too good. I have to leave her alone because something must be wrong.
7. You feel like you're playing yourself if you fuck her more than once.
8. Pursuit of the girl wasn't really challenging.
9. Something bad happened during the sexual encounter.
10. Don't want her catching feelings.
11. Afraid of commitment.
12. Hidden agenda.
13. Wasn't physically attracted.
14. Curious.
15. Too much work to get it.
16. Spite. Making me wait for the pussy because they don't want to seem easy.
17. She was talking that “you aint ready” shit, I smash and chit is wack.
18. Bad attitude during courtship so for wasting my time, I need to smash and dash.
19. I just aint into her. One of those chics you just can't stand to be around.
2. Pussy was wack, garbage.
3. In a relationship.
4. You look better with your clothes on.
5. Pussy was too easy, I know I got game but come on, I know I aint that nice.
6. Pussy was too good. I have to leave her alone because something must be wrong.
7. You feel like you're playing yourself if you fuck her more than once.
8. Pursuit of the girl wasn't really challenging.
9. Something bad happened during the sexual encounter.
10. Don't want her catching feelings.
11. Afraid of commitment.
12. Hidden agenda.
13. Wasn't physically attracted.
14. Curious.
15. Too much work to get it.
16. Spite. Making me wait for the pussy because they don't want to seem easy.
17. She was talking that “you aint ready” shit, I smash and chit is wack.
18. Bad attitude during courtship so for wasting my time, I need to smash and dash.
19. I just aint into her. One of those chics you just can't stand to be around.
Before you kill me, I have a confession. Those are not my answers, but I do endorse them. They come from 4 friends of mine, randomly picked and I respect their honesty. To protect them, they will remain “anonymous”. On their behalf, I will accept all awards. Lol. Some of the answers are good and some are just plain fucked up. I mean fellas, lets be honest, we can be some insensitive, unfair, and cruel individuals. But with all that being said, all is fair lust and war. Let me explain why.
I'm talking with one of my female friends and she's telling me about a situation her female friend is having. Her friend is involved with a guy and like most typical failed romances, the guy is on point in the beginning, gets the ass and then starts to text, as opposed to calling like he did prior to knocking it down. The texts soon start to come less frequently. The guy is much busier than he was in the past. Work is more demanding; he’s working on a promotion. You get the picture. You're wondering what happened. Those 19 answers above, some of those are what happened. That’s the reason why you guys are no longer the happy couple that walked up the block and held hands in front of his boys; why he no longer chills with you on Sunday and he’s back to watching his football games. But wait, there’s more! Those are not the only reasons you guys are not on the path originally set out. Those are only half of the story. Pay attention as I give you the other half.
Remember those days when you first met Mr. HitItandQuitIt. You didn’t really like him. You probably didn’t even give him the number. But he was a wolf. I mean he was focused, straight vulture. He knew what he liked and there was no way he was not going to get you. He actually had good intentions too. You kept seeing him. You respected his drive. He lived by the motto “persistence beats resistance”. He did everything possible. You give him the number, you see that he’s a nice guy, you think he deserved a chance. Again, he does everything. Pays for all the meals. Bought your little brother cleats for his first baseball game. Sends you flowers and edible arrangements. But you’re still dragging your feet. Meanwhile, his sucker meter is skyrocketing. Player cards are dropping all out of his pockets. His boys say “she sexy, but she aint Lauren London (pre Lil Wayne Lauren London of course)”. So he soon starts to feel used. Resentment is setting in. His effort is not being reciprocated. He may or may not make his feelings known. As a doggie biscuit, you finally give him the ass. You believe this is enough to keep his sucker meter high. But little did you know, his feelings changed during the courting period. He may have even met a woman that appreciates how well he treats her. But he wasn’t stupid. He was not departing yet. His bank account, his friends, movie and Broadway play stubs, they all reminded him of his failed ambition. He wants something. He wants ROHI, return on his investment. Cue your token sex. Blahhhhh.
Fast forward to the end of the ordeal. You’re emailing me asking the question of the week. But are you analyzing? Are you in the mirror? Did you notice how much work this guy put in? Trust me, he didn’t put in all this work just to hit. I don’t care what he says. He wanted something big, you didn’t give it to him, and you’re blaming him? Are you kidding me?
That scenario I shared is real ladies. The average guy has done this at least once. I mean there are a few Pretty Rickys out there who got they chit together that don’t have to go through this, but for the most part, that’s what we go through. Most women don’t like us initially. We gotta do what we gotta do.
Now time for my question. After you gave that guy the token sex, the work he put in to get you, did you put in the same amount of work to keep him? Be honest. You can lie to me, but you cannot lie to yourself.
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[anon11:56] Ughhh.. you are so disillusioned it's sickening. Why won't anyone follow their nature. Shrugs... This is all the truth of the sexes. Guys are the hunter, They are supposed to be attracted by the pretty feathers and the chase. Females are the hunted, they are supposed to give a good chase and then turn and see who is left standing. All these dudes that give up in the end are suckers that just might turn up single with no kids and a bald head and a fat beer belly looking for 20 year olds because.. Wait ur actually upset that it took her too long to fall for you? lol.. I wish we could go back to the days where someone had to kill a lion with their bare hands and bring it to my father. Do these guys ever try that? You cant throw money or tickets at a female and then get upset she doesnt fall for u sooner... Your game is wack.. believe me.. if you were that all in in the first place, she would've fallen for u. period. But you werent. You WERE WACK.. that's why she didn't fall. But then as I stated before... time went on.. and she lowered her standards.. or realized, she didnt have any other choices.. so she fell victim to her libido. and now.. as shes falling in love with you you are the one disillusioned? Smmfh. Guys get in females heads.. it's just a simple truth. After a while the g starts talking to females. they give in. Okay, no hes not that cute, no he kinda gets on my nerves, but okay he is sweet... and guys really turn around like.. I gave her the best shot I had at the beginning so now, eff her, Ill wait around till she gives it and treat her like chit[lol] after. Some more childish bullshit that dudes try to act like makes sense. Grown men would be able to better rationalize. Grown men should feel like if this is supposed to be forever, maybe I shoud pace myself. Maybe I should creep... and pounce when the timing is right.. it's efficient hunting practices for every other species... didnt you get the memo?
ReplyDelete"Trust me, he didn’t put in all this work just to hit. I don’t care what he says. He wanted something big"
ReplyDeleteBROTHA I CANNOT BEGIN TO EXPLAIN HOW MUCH I ENDORSE THIS QUOTE. I TRY MY HARDEST TO EXPLAIN TO FEMALES ALL THE TIME THAT SOMETIMES THE MAN IS LOOKIN FOR MORE THAN JUST ASS.
GREAT POST AS USUAL.
Brother Eno One (high five). Now for Anon[11:56] aka Ms."I just have real life experience and use it to guide my future choices." You clearly don't get it and obviously have been pumped and dumped a time or two in your past. First of all, yes men think with their penis, but believe it or not, we actually use our brains and know a catch when we see one whether we smash early or she makes us wait. You talk about men and their games, why do women play the hard to get game when you're into a dude? You can let a dude know you're feeling him without having to f**k him on the first date by doing one simple thing, RECIPROCATING! You have no problem getting men and women are so intuitive, if you see I'm putting in real effort, dinner, time, flowers, cirque du soleil (those tix aint cheap) obviously I'm into you. Why not do something nice for me? Why not ask me to dinner? Why not make me dinner? oh yeah many women can't cook because they're too busy with their "career" for that. So I'm running around like a sucka for love a** ni**a and I feel like this chic is trying to challenge my wallet. The gloves are off! The chic I was genuinely feeling is looking for a meal ticket. She must pay and the only pay that will suffice is that sweet p***y. You know why that is the price to pay? Because that hurts. When I smash and dash and leave a darling Nikki note on the stairs thanking you for a funky time, don't think it's because that's all I wanted. I was into you, now its about reparations. I want my "40 minutes and a Mule style." And now, she has given up that precious p***y and her "number" has just grown by one, and she has an emotional attachment because she "shared herself with me" and like Kaiser Soze I'm gone. THE BIG PAYBACK!! WHO'S LAUGHING NOW! This isn't child ish. The standoff is child's play. If you're not into my let me know. I'm a big boy. Women are like buses, you can catch one every 8 minutes. But,if you like me, why you want to keep me guessing? I have to earn it? Sure I should earn the p***y, but you can show me you like me too so I know I'm not wasting my time. That will keep me engaged and sure I'm going to want to smash, but before where it was #1 on the to do list, it's slowly dropping in importance because YOU LIKE ME TOO and I enjoy spending time with you. And because you pick up the bill, and because chillin in Central Park doing nothing is fine b/c I'm with you, and because you pick me up a Muhammad Ali picture for my pad off g.p. cause you know I love him and my walls in the pad are bare. Love is a two way street and being selfish leads to nothing but a broken heart and sore p***y.
ReplyDeleteUpon further review, Anon[11:56] you are a bitter woman.
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ReplyDeleteDENNIS HIGH FIVE RIGHT BACK BRUH! WITH ALL DUE RESPECT ANONYMOUS YOU REALLY NEED TO STEP OUT OF 1903 AND JOIN US IN THE 21ST CENTURY.... YOU FEEL WOMEN ARE THE HUNTED AND MEN ARE THE HUNTERS BECAUSE THAT'S WHAT SOCIETY HAS PUT IN YOUR HEAD... THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH THE WOMAN PUTTIN IN SOME DAMN WORK. WE NOT PEACOCKS AND I COULD CARE LESS WHAT YA FEATHERS LOOK LIKE, LIKE THE AUTHOR OF THE BLOG MENTIONED NOT ALWAYS ARE LOOKIN FOR JUST SEX WHEN WE THROW TICKETS, MONEY AND GIFT FOR YOUR NEPHEW YOUR WAY. IN FACT I DON'T KNOW ONE MAN WHO WOULD DO ALL OF THAT "JUST" FOR SOME ASS, SO AT THE VERY LEAST YOU COULD GIVE ME SOME CHEEKS! DO ME A FAVOR, BE A DIFFERENT BREED OF WOMAN AND PUT YOURSELVES IN OUR SHOES, AND YOU TELL ME HOW YOU'D FEEL WHEN YOUR "INVESTMENTS" DIDN'T PAY OFF AT ALL.
ReplyDeleteWow.....got me thinkging. But I have to side with Anonymous. Point taken, but I think it is some of these weak minded women who forgot to be women and stand firm (they are wack). We as women, really do have the control in this situation. Natural selection means choosing the strongest, most intelligent so your gene pool will continue on. Stop accepting the BS (even the cave women got it right). The lazy ass men,who are so self centered, mentally inferior, with one tracked minds....they can't raise your kids (after all, that is what dating and mating is about). F-ing with one of those kind, is the sure makings for the angry/scorn woman w/ messed up kids.Dam it, Ladies....if you wait to fall in love and do background checks,make sure the debt ratio is in check, meet the friends and family (got to check out the history)and he don't have time, he's mad....So what!Its on to the next one, its ok. Dont be afraid to be by yourself; when its right, it will happen. Or else just check your self in, and get a good out patient program, cause you may be on meds. Don't compromise just to have a man....OMG.
ReplyDeleteFellas,Its like the good ole boys network....lol. Its not a game. At least it wont be when your pushing 40 and paying for ass. Then you wont even care about the cash you spent. You will be thingking back to, so and so and how she made you wait; but at least you could wait for something other than 11pm for the playboy channel. I do feel you if your talking about the principal of it but why all the high fiving??? why does it seem like your mainly talking about the loot...Are you feeling like your paying for it? Is that why your saying you loose your player cards? Why can't we all just get along...lol
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ReplyDeleteFirst of all, if we're talkin' 'bout taking it back to draggin' dead kings of the jungle back to pops, the obvious translation for THIS day and age would be proving ourselves worthy, simply by showing drive, ambition, maturity, etc. Courting women is done by dudes to get his foot in the door - a door that, for whatever reason, women seldom open, or open at the right time. All we really want is to find out if what's on the inside is as beautiful as what's on the outside. If it is, Jackpot! Side note: gettin ass, for most of us, is just another way we choose to connect with females, and we're pretty good about not fallin in love with the pussy alone.
If we're talkin' 'bout peacocks, if i'm not mistaken, isn't it the Male peacocks who have to show feathers to attract the females?? It's an age-old complaint that "there aren't any good men left in the world". Although the ratio doesn't weigh in your favor, Ladies, there are still some out there, but it seems like the majority of you aren't willing to put in the same level of work, or more even, if a good dude is truly what you want. And Miss Anon, you somewaht contradicted yourself in your remarks. Is it that females are supposed to play the role of the hunted, creating a challenge for us dudes, or is it that we're after "deadheads" as you called it, and not choosing wisely? This entire process is just that - a process. And, in the end, all we want is someone who's presence we can appreciate and enjoy on multiple levels. If we've gone thru an extensive courting process, only to continue to be shut out, then we're gonna view you as an asshole, and, not wanting to pursue an asshole, feel the only feasable connection left to make would be a physical one because, let's face it - we all have needs. Rocko, you said it best.....if a dude is coming out dem pockets, and the effort isn't mutual, then he's gonna start to feel like he got took, and the only payback acceptable at that time is pun.
To close, I think it's foolish for any woman to honestly believe a guy is gonna continue to be bitter about the woman that didn't appreciate him past a month! Yeah' its fucked up, but it really ain't THAT serious. I say to you women, maintain your standards, just revisit your screening process, 'cause that shit is broken and need repair!
Intelligent brothers at our finest!
ReplyDeleteLove the post. Definitely appreciate the insight but these comments.... Damn! Feels like yall resent us for having to work hard for something. Do yall approach other obstacles in life the same way once you finally conquer it. I'm sure yall don't resent and sabotage your dream job once you finally get it just because it was difficult and took so many years of schooling and training to reach that point of achievement. You "court" us and then "hit it, and quit it"... huh???? that's like quitting on your first day. Did you reap "rewards" from your employer before you actually got the job. If I'm not giving you the reciprocation you feel you need and deserve then just move onto the next one... you don't have to revenge fuck me.
ReplyDelete[anon11:56] okay... I dont wanna be most hated anymore.. I resign. plus I'm not bitter. =) I am that chick that sends flowers, cooks dinner and likes free dates. Show me the man that can take me out all day and figured out how to do it free and I will know how creative you really are. Honestly, to know me is to know you will have to pay me more in attention than you ever would earn in money to spend. I love long and hard and usually end on good terms. Shrugs.. I never met anyone in a club and rarely frequent them, but if that's what it is tonight, yes I am still down. I'm just saying, the sad part is that usually my relationships end because I outgrew someone, that's just what it is sometimes. Hopefully, [mighty D.R.]when you find who you are looking for she doesn't outgrow you. Yea, I might be a little hood, but mainly I still am old fashioned and stuck in 1903 or wherever someone mentioned I was.
ReplyDeleteP.S. For the masses, you get what you are looking for. Not with your eyes but with your heart. Lord knows, most of you do only yourselves the injustice of saying you are looking for the right thing, when you know full well, what you really wanted was what you really got.
[anon11:56] oh and i meant to say Reneise.. =) high 5.. since we're all slapping up around here
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ReplyDeleteIt's interesting to get insight from males. But yal are a pretty basic species. Not too far from the next one. I've heard all of these reasons before from different ages and races of men. Why she got used and abused; dissed; and he moved on to the next one... As women; we go to our girls for advise and clarity and even our best male friend to get the scoop. "why"? Ask the brotha that hurt you..."why?!!!!" Then ask yourself... "Why"?...
HONESTY: What are your intentions? Males and Females?
- Do you just wanna fuck... say it! I'm sure someone will be bout it. If not, on to the next one... "revenge fucking" is crap... do you have any morals?
-Do you want a relationship? or do you just wanna fuck?
-Do you wanna court? or do you just wanna fuck?
-Do you wanna a bunch of free meals and tickets to Broadway shows? Are you a gold digger that enjoys using people? Are you going to let him fuck? Are you a hoe?
-What are your intentions? Do you just wanna fuck?!?!?!?!?!!!!
Honesty is the best policy, If everyone would be up front with their intentions, everything would be sooo much more simplistic, and stress free. It's inevitable and unavoidable that GAMES will be played. But why does it have to be this way?
I'm questioning security. Are you secure about yourself... REALLY?? A lot of brothas claim to be sooooo confident and secure but deep down inside, that is NOT the case. Secure men can be up front about their intentions. Most women rather deal with a Secure asshole of a brotha than a slicksta who plays games. And those are the guys that get what they want...and it works out better this way for both parties.
The same thing goes for women, how secure are you about yourself? Do you know your worth? Do you value yourself... at all? If so, why take such risk? Why risk your heart with a brotha when you are still not sure about his intentions? Are you that pressed for a man? YOU play games with your heart when you know you can't handle it, then cry about it lata. You know that you are not tough as you try to betray... You know that you can't handle a one night stand... you've tried different things, making him wait 3 months, 2 weeks; etc. What is your success rate? Often times woman are as much or more to blame than brothas when their feelings get crushed. If only everyone was honest, and true to themselves and the person they are dealing with... What do you want from him? Do you wanna be his lady? Tell him, and a "secure brotha" will tell you what he really wants from you; also trust your instincts; if something don't seem right, then it probably isn't. Are you willing to risk a broken heart AGAIN? Is it worth it? Do you value yourself enough to be honest with yourself? Are you the master of your fate? Stop trying to figure out why he played you, and focus on NOT playing yourself. I'm not saying that it's your fault that that brother played you in the past... but learn from previous hurt and apply it. Only YOU can allow others to dictate your fate, or you can be the master of YOUR own...
Ok. I actually can understand and am feeling where the men are coming from on this issue. To be honest I have most definitely taken advantage of guys who I knew liked me. I would let them take me out to dinner, shows or wherever as long as I was having a good time and didn't have to pay! I knew I wasn't really feeling them but hey "Free Meal" right? (I woldn't blame them for being a bit bitter)
ReplyDeleteI think that sometimes as women we put ourselves on a pedal stool, thinking that we should be winded & dinned and that nothing should even be expected in return. Now don't get me wrong....any man that plans to be with me MUST understand that I am spoiled and I like to be pampered, but I have also learned that as a woman, if you give just a little bit then a man that loves you will give you the world.
So ladies...listen to these men. They are letting you in on a big secret. Showing a guy you care is not making yourself look weak or vulnerable. It can actually get you that title or that ring faster.
So the next time you wonder why that dude you used to date ended up marrying that girl that can't hold a flame to you....well...its because you made it so much about you that you never made it about HIM.
Reciprocation is definitely necessary, and also fair. Whether the reciprocation that you give or are willing to receive is intimacy/ sex, things of monetary value, cooking etc. it's determined by that individuals personal love language. Everyone has different requirements.
ReplyDeleteYes men should chase in the beginning and I don't blame the men that chase then fall back when they are out of breath. Reciprocation is like C.P.R. Its gives the chase life and sustains it. It lets a man know that what he's doing isn't in vain which is totally fair. I admit, some women make it very hard for men; everyone is entitled to have their own expectations of the opposite sex; but some women need to step off of the pedal stool cuz they are ruining it for the "down to earth" sistaz, who don't mind returning a little reciprocation.
I've had friends tell me "Girl, hell naw! Cook for him, are you serious? Make him take you out, and you should NEVER pay!" (even tho the brotha has paid for the last 3 dates). I've even been scolded by my friends for offering to pay for "Cold Stones" ice cream at the end of
a date when dude already paid for dinner and the movie. I have to admit that the chics who have given me this advice are both single, unhappy and bitter. I've also been warned, "if you pay, he's going to start feeling insecure because you are showing him that you can take care of yourself" blah blah blah... I've learned to do me, whatever I feel is necessary I do it... No one wants to work in vain, you get a paycheck @ work right?... Reciprocate however you see fit.
All of the comments were great as much as they were necessary. Its great that everyone has their own point of view. My reason for starting this blog is to give women insight on how we think. There is no way you can think like us. So please listen, thats right listen.
ReplyDeleteAlthough a lot of us are single and believe being single is a great thing, at the end of the day we want to be in that fruitful relationship. We all want the same thing. But we will be at a stand still forever if women dont meet us half way. You can talk bad about us and how you refuse to settle, and we can do the same. But who really wins. So the point is to point out our differences and work to get over them to we can meet up at the finish line. I dont know if its good or bad, but it does seem weird that there are so many eligible bachelorettes. We need to check ourselves and get to the root of the problem. Stop blaming everyone else.
And I always find it interesting when women say that its tougher for women to find a man than a man finding a woman. Some of you may think that because we have more options its easier for us to find someone, but thats not necessarily true. That just mean it more chit for us to sift thru. A good female doesn't necessarily mean its a good fit. I see sneakers all the time that are fly, but I know they wouldn't look good on my feet.
to add to that, please keep in mind that this wasn't about whether or not what us guys were doing was right or wrong. it was simply about why - cause and effect. we are far from perfect, but as ES and She Ra stated (very nice), we can work together to eliminate the bullshit. honesty IS the best policy people!!
ReplyDeleteEverybody wanna high five now..biters! jk
ReplyDelete@ Pouty xoxoxo THANK YOU for being honest. Maybe the ladies will take it from a lady when she says LISTEN to what the men have to say.
Oh yeah and ANON[11:56] you can get some too suga, xoxo
To Es Wild's last comment "Savedatshit,Savedatshit" (in da Ice-T New jack City voice). LOL
ReplyDelete"I don't know what da fuc they thought DEM NIGGAS IS FOUL JUST LIKE US" Hov
love the graphic of sunshine anderson...that was my song. lol!
ReplyDeletewow WAT a bunch of bs. i met dis chick. and of course the WHAMPER was indeed feeling me like i feel WHAMPS(which she had of course they where big, her teeth were exhausted)...ne way, i take her to the lab for some young "put out" & she no puts out...what gives? Well, she say she like me and is intimidated by my status (young, black, look like i got money, employed, grossly handsome). and that she dont wana rush but she "really dont trust herself around me". CHICKS LOOK FOR DADDYS FOR THEY BABIES THAT THEY MADE WITH POOKEY BUT WANA "WIFE" ME!!! no thanks, i just want the WHAMPS WIT AMPS!!!! BASS BOOM Girls over 24 are so wack!!!
ReplyDeleteOkay Mr. Whamps wit amps...lol what does that even mean? (im just saying what i know ya'll r thinking)...n e whooo as a sexually liberated female who will sleep with whoever she wants whenever she wants....let me first say that i totally believe how you are perceived is based all on how you carry yourself. if you will just walk into a party spot one dude and 10 mins later ya'll are sucking and *ucking then yes everyone will think your a ho and you will prob fit the title. but if you are just NORMAL and let nature take its course then all anyone can say is that you are cool and grown about your shyt. no one here is married and now one REALLY wants to marry a virgin. forget the numbers forget the bullshyt questions (is it the right time what will he think) and use your own damn brian. What do u think? what do u want? if u want it and u take it then in the morning ur done what more can he say? do you and live your life you only get one. Now i am not promoting that u goout and pick up 10 dudes but shyt these guys sleep with one girl in the morning and another in the night and a third the next afternoon. so if you want to let loose off the goose and do u think i think you should do it. be safe at all times and DONT TAKE NO DAMN PICTURES LMAO
ReplyDeletewhamps are boobs. whampers are women with big nice boobs(im drooling). ummm and whamps wit amps refer to a lady with a nice booty. now if its a bass kick wit da amps then she "Sluggn". Sluggn means her body is dumb nice. Faces dnt rly matter. Personality and Body is all its about on dis side. WHAMP WHAMP
ReplyDeleteAll I have to say to this is I am glad I have male platonic (yes, Es Wild those type of relationships - platonic exisit :p) friendships.
ReplyDeleteThanks for putting the harsh realities on Front Street. Which four friends? I wanna know who came up with this list???
I do have a question with #11. Afraid of commitment - so does that mean he becomes a serial HitItandQuitIt dude? Running from relationships???
This is clearly a sore spot for many. After reading the post and the comments its clear that there is a disconnect between women and men. The problem is that women aren't light switches like most men are. A man can see a woman from across the room and automatically he's interested in her. Women, not so much, you could be fine as the day is long, we need to find that connection if we're serious and that takes time. So what you as men might see as "playing hard to get" is us trying to figure out her feelings for you. What man wants a woman to gush about how she's falling for him after the first or second date? You'd be running for the hills.
ReplyDeleteAs for this hit it and quit it thing, it's childish, bitter, stupid, cruel and makes YOU look like an a@#hole. If you lost interest in the chick why don't you just leave her alone? So you feel like a sucker because you're spending all your money and time so instead of just cutting your losses you spend more time and money on "payback"
Silly, really silly...